Euhm, sorry RTP, but you've gone too far. For the sake of my OWN UNSANITY, I oppone to this argument. As part of the crazy, insane, underground crowd, I can easily say that I don't have unsolved issues in my life, nor I am unable to cope with women, nor I have miserable work...
I turned UNSANE from such hardcore influence, going to parties for decade and more, taking lot of drugs and at the same time visiting various other concerts, lives, sets, ranging from all variety kinds of music. So, I think that your opinion is rather uptight, conservative thinking but I can see some of your points, you've just generalised too much and as always bothering around psychology of things too much.